How shall you know if you want to drink coffee with your partner, if you are suppose to drink coffee to be with your partner? The fourth episode of Darbo ftiho approaches a subject which is not often talked about and relates to young Assyrians. A lot of them hide their love because they are not allowed to be seen together. Others choose to engage only to be able to show their love publicly. Is there something wrong with our culture? Have we been ”infected” by the norms of the swedish society? And also, what is worst from an assyrian perspective – an attached relationship or to get married and later have a divorce?